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I'm making this entry public, because it's the best way I can think of to tell my mom. Jonhenry and I are officially going out. I told him how my relationships have been in the past, and that all the signs were the same with this one, and let him make the decision. I also told him that with both Emily and Dan, things kind of disintegrated into a purely physical relationship, and that I want to make sure that doesn't happen with us. I don't know how it will turn out, but at least he knows what will probably happen, and he decided I'm "worth the risk."

A funny thing, that the only two guys I've ever dated are Irish and from Rockhurst.

Anyway... I've seen Rain every day since Thursday. Thursday night she slept over- we went to see "Much Ado About Nothing" at the Shakespeare festival with Mom, Bill, Dan and Jonhenry. Jonhenry and I decided about two minutes in that we were bored and wandered away to talk until his mom picked him up. After he left, I found it difficult to concentrate on Shakespeare. Friday night I went back to actually watch "Much Ado About Nothing." It was pretty meh. It's supposed to be such an awesome play, but... the writing was good, and the acting was good, but the plotline was entirely unremarkable. I had fun anyway, though.

Yesterday, Saturday, Mom decided she was sick of Bill playing World of Warcraft and took me and Link to Oak Park Mall, which is conveniently near Lenexa, where Rain lives. I called her and she came to meet us at the mall. We went to the Rainforest Cafe, which was not all it's cracked up to be, then Mom took us back to Rain's, where I slept over. Well, not much sleeping was done- we didn't get around to starting to clean her room until about eleven-thirty, so we got to bed after four, and had to get up at nine to get to church. I hadn't been to All Souls since before we left on the trip, so there was a lot of catching up to do. Ann and Coty were the only ones there; I hadn't been planning on sleeping over at Rain's, so I didn't have poor Coty's necklace, which I've been holding hostage for months. We played "cooperative games," then Rain and I went to the library and Subway while her mom got her hair cut. Then I went to Jonhenry's and we watched "Top Secret," a relatively amusing eighties movie, before going back to my house for Mom's Thai peanut sauce noodles.

I've decided not to be paranoid about Jonhenry like I was about Dan. With him, I was just waiting for the thing that would make me stop liking him. This time, I'm just going to enjoy it while it lasts and hope it lasts a while.

Date: 2005-06-26 11:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] devils-reject.livejournal.com
"I've decided not to be paranoid about Jonhenry like I was about Dan. With him, I was just waiting for the thing that would make me stop liking him. This time, I'm just going to enjoy it while it lasts and hope it lasts a while."

something many of us would do well to put in to action, and yet never seem to get around to doing
*cough*

i approve.
loveness!

Date: 2005-06-27 12:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jedusor.livejournal.com
Thanks, babe. *hugs*

Date: 2005-06-27 04:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kaberett.livejournal.com
Yay!

*manylots cuddles*

And again I say "best of luck there, sweetie". :)

Doesn't cover it, but... yeah. I want things to be good for the Julia :p *fluffle*

Date: 2005-06-27 12:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jedusor.livejournal.com
Hee! Thank you, hon! *manylots cuddles back* I want things to be good for the Julia, too :)

Date: 2005-06-27 09:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mamagotcha.livejournal.com
"I want things to be good for julia"

yep, that about covers it for me, too! hope you guys have a fun summertime romance... he defintely redeemed himself quite a bit at dinner.

whoops, baby in the dog dish. gotta go.

Date: 2005-06-27 12:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jedusor.livejournal.com
I'm glad. My mom liking a person isn't a criteria for dating them, but it does make things a lot easier :)

??

Date: 2005-06-27 09:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 1firefly.livejournal.com
did you lie to your mom knowing she would find out?
did you play the chess game in your head and think it was worth it? Im disappointed, but i guess youve thought of that too.

Re: ??

Date: 2005-06-28 03:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jedusor.livejournal.com
No, I did not lie to her. I told her I was not meeting Jonhenry at the Shakespeare festival, and she took that to mean I was not meeting anyone at the Shakespeare festival.

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